A. Personal Data Summary
Name: Michael Delos Santos
Age: 6 yrs. old
Sex: Male
Date of Birth: July 29, 2004
Name of Father: Rommy Delos Santos Occupation: Part time Welder
Name of Mother: Susan Delos Santos Occupation: Canteen Helper
Birth Order: 1st Child
Hobbies: Playing Chinese Garter & Watching T.V
Height: 38 inch.
Weight:
Physical appearance: Black haired & Fair skinned with good looks, he would be considered a handsome child. Although he appeared to be somewhat taller than the other boys, his movements seemed to have little awkwardness.
B. Joining Process
Michael is a student of Love of Jesus International- Philippines registered child under United Love Church (ULC) Study Learning Center. He was sexually abused by his four neighbors & two cousins who were 14- 19 years old, when he was five. He was only able to disclose to a church member when he had seizure at church, in 2009. He was five then. From Michael’s account, the abuse was ritualistic, done daily around 7:00pm. The cousins & neighbors would clap. This served as a signal that he should come out or have a beating the next day if he did not. The teens would then take him under the bridge, in a vacant lot, by the creek, or inside a public toilet & force him to do sexual acts with them.
C. Presenting Problem
As I observed Michael in a couple of weeks, I noticed that He is still confused to his gender identity or in other words “Identity Crisis”. He usually isolates himself from the other children. Most of his friends are the local dancers, some of whom are gay. They don’t encourage him to join dancing competitions with them, however, because he may have seizure during their number. Michael is now out of school. He was enrolled last school year, but stopped. He begs for money or food with his friends or harvests a few vegetables, usually “moringga” & cooks them for the day’s meal.
D. Long Trail of Events
D.1 Time Line/ Birth Order/ Key Events
D.2Genogram
D.3 Sociograph
Social Structure of the Family
At Church
D.4 Personality DynamicsMichael admits to me that he is still confused as to his gender identity. He is withdrawn & usually isolates himself from the children in the church & in the center/ project. He explained that he did not cope well in school because he was enrolled in a SPED class, where his classmates were deaf & mute.
D.5 Relationship of the Child/ Quality of Relationship
He is withdrawn & usually isolates himself from the other children around him, especially in the church & in the center/ project. Apparent confusion as to his sexual identification, which maybe a consequence of his poor relationship with his father & of the sexual ordeal he had to go through since he was five.
D.6 How the child do things
He carried himself well. On the playground he displayed good control of his large muscles. When he handled small objects such as a pencil or crayon, he use of small muscles also appeared well controlled. All of his eye- hand movements appeared well- coordinated.
E. Theoretical Framework
- Input: Emotional Disturbance
- His inherit potential, deemed to be a long the dull- average range was lowered due to the prevalence of emotional disturbances; he was a very insecure young man, laden with uncertainties & emotional difficulties.
- Process:
- Output:
F. Prognosis:
- He is emotional disturbance & very insecure young man, because of what happened to him. He is still confused to his gender identity. Preoccupation & exposed with sexual themes (this was consistent with mother’s accounts of him masturbating & licking on elongated objects).
G. Therapeutic Plan:
G.1 Knowledge Building
G.2 Skills Building
· For Michael to be able to work through his trauma.
G.3 Attitude Building
· For him to be able to determine his hopes for the future & be helped accordingly, given projects resources.
H. Therapeutic Intervention
Therapeutic Plan | Intervention | Date |
G.1 Knowledge Building | ||
G.2 Skills Building For Michael to be able to work through his trauma. | Not achieved - The memories about the tragedy will very likely remain with him in some form or other throughout his life. | March 10, 2011 |
G.3 Attitude Building For him to be able to determine his hopes for the future & be helped accordingly, given projects resources. | Achieved - When I asked him about what he wants to do as a living, he is highly pragmatic knowing his limitations (both physical & spiritual). | March 12, 2011 |
I. Therapeutic Progress
Intervention | Date | Progress |
Not achieved - The memories about the tragedy will very likely remain with him in some form or other throughout his life. | March 10, 2011 | It is Imperative that he undergoes the recommended counseling with the professional help. |
Achieved - When I asked him about what he wants to do as a living, he is highly pragmatic knowing his limitations (both physical & spiritual). | March 12, 2011 | This next school year he will pursue his studies at the center project & he presently attend in ULC Sunday Service for children. |
J. Therapeutic Result
There is much evidence to establish the importance of past events on present behavior. One wonders how permanent the effects will be upon him developing personality. Opportunities to express his feelings freely would be help. Supportive home& school environment will alleviate much of the resulting emotional upset. If he understand & accepts the reason for his fears, he may overcome any overt behavioral reaction. But a subconscious awareness is likely to remain with him, even after he has made adequate adjustments t is lost.
K. Summary: Conclusions/ Recommendations
At the end of many hours of observation I found myself w/ the impression that Michael Delos Santos was an extraordinary child in many ways. He carried his self well, & there was very little awkwardness in any of his movements. He could assume a deeply withdrawn & saddened appearance. Because of the traumatic happened to him, Michael obviously felt the effects of this & considered it a burden. Michael’s apparent dominance in his emotional relationship with his mother gives an adequate example of an advanced maturity. However, I observed that he was not so emotionally mature in most other areas. One example of this was his apparent feelings of insecurity as evidenced by his constant need for approval & his overly enthusiastic response to it. I could realize how much he was affected by his traumatic experiences. Insecurity was only one of the emotional factors that was revealed. It is difficult to define the full effects of Michael’s emotional problem on his relationship with his peer group. He seemed to prefer to be alone & his frequent withdrawal into his self gave proof to this.
In the physical & mental sense Michael appeared to be an outstanding child. In the social & emotional sense, he was lacking. To provide him the security he needs, the roles (of his self & his mother) should be far more clearly defined & definitely rearranged. Michael’s rapid growth, emotionally, should be slowed & replaced with the building of a more sound sense of security. So at this point we can only hope that Michael will grow to be a strong person, but the help & support of his mother must come quickly.




